I must be the most patient person on the planet

This is a conversation I had some time ago.  I've changed the name of any actual person in SL.  But this was a real conversation.  How many of you can relate to this?  I would like to say this convo was unique but it's not. I get these type of questions about once a month.  In any case I found it to be a very interesting conversation so I thought I would post it. Would you be as kind to this poor man if you were in this situation? Think about it.

[15:14] Mr. X: i like the red dress
[15:15] Mr. X: do u know Art?
[15:15] Sedona Mills: Red is one of my favorite colors.
[15:15] Sedona Mills: No I don't.
[15:16] Mr. X: oh ok
[15:16] Mr. X: red fits u right
[15:16] Mr. X: how old r u in rl
[15:16] Sedona Mills: take a look at my profile, it's in there.
[15:17] Mr. X: cool
[15:17] Mr. X: bbi sexual, thats sexy
[15:17] Sedona Mills: I guess.. It's just who I am and how I'm wired.  :)
[15:17] Mr. X: i know
[15:18] Mr. X: i like it
[15:18] Mr. X: do u have a boyfriend in rl
[15:18] Sedona Mills: why are you looking for a RL girlfriend?
[15:18] Mr. X: maybe
[15:18] Mr. X: :)
[15:19] Sedona Mills: Well my RL private life is just that, except what I've put in my profile.
[15:19] Mr. X: im lonely now, and dont know how....
[15:19] Mr. X: oh ok
[15:19] Mr. X: i respect that
[15:20] Mr. X: can i take u to my place after this
[15:20] Sedona Mills: Did you notice the part of my profile about me being marrined in SL?
[15:20] Mr. X: no
[15:20] Sedona Mills: you may wish to take a look again
[15:21] Mr. X: oh, wow
[15:21] Mr. X: u are with her
[15:21] Mr. X: here
[15:21] Sedona Mills: yes I am.
[15:21] Mr. X: can i take u both then
[15:22] Sedona Mills: No.. we're not into threesomes.  And Sky is strictly a lesbian.
[15:22] Mr. X: can i see u too get it on
[15:22] Mr. X: that would be sexy
[15:23] Sedona Mills: X, what possible reason do you think I would comply with that request?
[15:24] Mr. X: luck....pure luck for me
[15:24] Mr. X: and friendship....im a good friend
[15:25] Mr. X: u know what would be sexy
[15:25] Sedona Mills: I met you 20 minutes ago.. I've been in SL for years and know people here for that long that I consider "good freinds".  You have a long way to go.
[15:25] Mr. X: i could be your boy servent for both
[15:25] Mr. X: :(
[15:26] Sedona Mills: So do ask ladies these questions in RL?
[15:26] Mr. X: if i had a couple of drinks, and the mood is right, yes
[15:27] Sedona Mills: You may want to rethink that philosphy.  It may be why your lonely. :)
[15:27] Mr. X: :(
[15:27] Mr. X: u r hard
[15:29] Sedona Mills: Well, I would think you would at least respect my relationship with Sky.  It's very real and personal to us.  And you come across thinking we're here for you're personal benifit.  To be honest it's pretty degrading.
[15:29] Mr. X: never saw it like that
[15:29] Mr. X: wow
[15:30] Mr. X: u make me feel like an idiot
[15:30] Mr. X: i guess i deserve it
[15:30] Sedona Mills: I'm not trying to belittle hon.. You just need to realize that people in SL are actually real people in many cases.
[15:31] Sedona Mills: If I was at an adult sim, dressed to have sex, and in an establishment that basically is a place for sex, then your questions are entirely resonable.
[15:31] Mr. X: i think what u said might be true, even in my rl
[15:32] Mr. X: i dont care about others but myself
[15:32] Sedona Mills: I'm not mad at you.. you're not the first person that's asked me what you asked :)
[15:32] Mr. X: i wish i could change that, but i cant
[15:32] Mr. X: i suck
[15:32] Mr. X: my wife doesnt even like me
[15:33] Mr. X: and she is the most beautiful woman in nyc
[15:33] Sedona Mills: lol.. you need to lighten up on yourself.
[15:33] Mr. X: phisically and inside
[15:34] Mr. X: i mean it... iw ill go on, be the person that everyone knows
[15:34] Mr. X: but deep inside, im not happy with me
[15:34] Mr. X: weird aint it
[15:34] Mr. X: and im successful
[15:34] Mr. X: make good money, beautiful wife
[15:34] Mr. X: anyways...
[15:34] Mr. X: later
[15:34] Sedona Mills: okay.. see ya..
[15:35] Mr. X: wow....i thought u were going to give me some advice
[15:35] Sedona Mills: I thought I did
[15:35] Mr. X: u seem like a real smart person
[15:35] Mr. X: im glad i met u
[15:36] Sedona Mills: I appreciate that.  But please, the next lady you talk too, be a bit more of a gentleman..  unless you're looking for a slut you probably will find a nice girl.
[15:37] Sedona Mills: There are a lot of them looking for nice guys in SL.. and there are so few nice guys it seems these days here. :)
[15:37] Mr. X: i will be one, promise
[15:38] Mr. X: ty :)
[15:38] Sedona Mills smiles.. good.. thank you for that

I am now waiting for a really hunky good looking TOS fella to show up at my door and spank me for being naughty and posting this. One can only hope!

Getting over it

Sky didn't log in tonight. It's okay though. We all need our own time now and then. My very old friend RADD said hi so I invited him over to some dancing at Mojo Haven.  Shameless plug follows; I host there at 5 pm SLT on Saturdays. End of shameless plug.

It was RADD's first time at Mojo and everyone was nice to him even though he was with me. Come to think of it they are nice to Sky when she is with me to. I think they are just putting up a front for my friends sake.

Okay, a little fun now. There are only 10 types of people in the world, those that understand binary and those that don't.

Also, I'm feeling better now.  I'm getting over whatever the hell that was that about put me away for life. Or at least that's what it felt like.

Real Life Affecting Second Life

Some days it just doesn't pay to get out of bed. Second Life for me is more then just a game or hanging out in fantasyland. It is a part of what I do. Some people go sit in Starbucks and read a book that makes them look intelligent. I read in my comfy chair at home with lots of sunlight coming through the window. Some people go shopping at Nieman Marcus not really to buy anything, but to look at what they could buy if they could afford it. I'm a Big Lots kind of person.

Second Life to me is my hang out. My place to find friends, and try out new adventures. So, when I don't take time to be in Second Life it's usually because real life gets in the way. The heat wave we recently had in America and the follow-on cool off has had one casualty. Me. Apparently it seems cold viruses like twenty-five degree shifts in temperature more then I do. Because of this fact my time in Second Life suffers and Sedona just doesn't get out as much as she would like.

Sometimes I'm so pathetic.

Tonight was one of those nights

Sometimes it's not just the clothes you wear, not just the dance you are dancing or not just the music that's being played. Sometimes it's all three in tandem that makes you glad you're alive. Tonight was one of those nights.

I wasn't particularly in the mood for any kind of naughty thoughts nor was I looking for some. But Sky loves to see me in my "Blond Bimbo" look when it suits her and I had a feeling that tonight was one of those nights.

So I did it right. Putting on my brand new red heels from N-Core we hit Hotlanta. The music was slow and sultry and just right to get me into a relaxed mood. The red dress by Celoe was working it's magic and Sky was being, well being her hot sexy self in this very sexy black jumpsuit and corset. While I've been in SL long enough that it takes a bit to get my heart a pitterin and patterin, tonight was was one of those nights that did it.

Oh! And if you have never checked out Hotlanta and you are looking for a great blues club. Check it out!

Yay!! Presents!

On my fifth rez-day (five years in Second Life - who needs a real life) Sky took me shopping! Yay!  One of the places she took me to was Mon Tissu. After slapping a 1,000 linden card in my had she showed me a couple of items she thought would be nice. Items of interest that piqued my interest was a sweatshirt with an open shoulder.

I remember seeing this somewhere else but I couldn't remember where.  The next day I was looking at the Juicybomb blog (listed to the right) and realized that Gogo had an article on just that item. Reviewing her blog I found the article and realized the shorts she also recommended were the same ones Sky recommended to me. Since I like pastels and especially light pink I found the peach color pleasing.  Here are some pics of the outfit.

Mon Tissu specializes in mesh clothing. While at first I was concerned that I'd have to make significant shape adjustments to use mesh clothing I've found that really isn't the case. I really am starting to like mesh for clothing. I'll write more about my thoughts with mesh later.